Going out with a bang

By: Hollie Kowalski
Encompass Outreach Coordinator


If you are anything like me, you started 2023 with a short list of big goals, maybe a resolution or two, much anticipation about a fresh start going into the new year, a bit melancholy about the quick passing of time and some feelings of disappointment over the setbacks and unmet expectations of the year prior.
 
As we conclude this year, I’m choosing to focus on finishing well in preparation for a fabulous start to 2024. I invite you to join me! I believe a few great ways we can end the year well are...

• Focus on the Positive! Resist that temptation to focus on failures and unmet expectations. This year has been a whirlwind for my family, (as most of them are) and we have had some disappointments, but God has blessed us immensely. Some of my favorite moments of the year to reflect on so far: The birth of our first grandson, Jack; Hearing the words, “No cancer,” after my thyroid surgery AND AGAIN after my dad’s follow up appointment to prostate surgery; The general overall feelings of peace and contentment we felt as we chose to say “no” whenever possible, to a constant overly busy schedule and all of that unneeded stress, in order to spend priceless time with family; Our first family trip to the mountains (it was also Jack’s first vacay which made it super special) and finally, the start of my small business- which has been challenging, but so very rewarding!

• Start to Think about New Goals!  Remember to stay positive. Maybe there were some goals that you didn’t accomplish this year. This doesn’t mean that you failed- only that you haven’t accomplished these goals YET!  Add them to your list for the new year!  Think realistically, but also challenge yourself. I like to write my goals down and keep them visible, so I am more likely to be motivated each day and hold myself accountable. Whether it’s exercise, eating right, working towards a specific number of clients/projects in my business, or spending time one on one with my kids, I want to see those goals daily as a reminder to stay focused.

 

• Pray Over Your Goals! Pray for strength and wisdom. Ask God to give you the strength to pursue your goals, but also the wisdom to know which goals align with His will for your life. Trying to pursue big goals can sometimes be scary. Pray for courage so that you can step out in faith and take the appropriate risks. Pray for perseverance that God will help you to “keep going” even through the tough stuff. Pray for self-discipline. For me, after the newness of the year wears off, it’s easy to get distracted and become less motivated to work toward specific goals that I’ve set.  

 
Commit to the Lord, whatever you do and your plans will succeed. Proverbs 16:3
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