Everlasting Love in the Established Years: Building on the Foundation (Years 14–21)

By Dr. David Marine Mabry

Encompass Executive Director

The early years of marriage are often marked by discovery and formation. As we discussed in the newlywed season, couples are learning how to build rhythms, navigate differences, and practice love in everyday life. As marriage moves into years seven through fourteen, the focus often shifts—but the work remains just as important. 

These are busy years. Full years. Often beautiful and exhausting at the same time. 
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Careers are taking shape. Children may enter the picture. Schedules fill quickly. Energy is divided. And marriage—once front and center—can slowly drift toward the background if couples are not intentional. 
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Yet these years hold enormous promise.