Most couples believe they communicate fairly well. 

After all, they talk every day. They discuss schedules, responsibilities, decisions, and concerns. Conversation is a regular part of life together. 

Yet many of the arguments couples experience are not caused by disagreement alone. More often, they arise from something deeper: one or both partners feeling misunderstood. 

When people feel unheard, even small conversations can become frustrating. 

In many cases the missing skill is not speaking more clearly. It is learning how to listen well. 

Listening may sound simple, but healthy listening in marriage is one of the most important—and least practiced—communication skills couples can develop. 

Anger. Fear. Sadness. Joy. Excitement. You've felt these emotions. All people do. But not all people know what to do with them. Want to know a master skill in understanding yourself and others?

If you've ever been in the presence of a masterful listener you feel quite different than when someone is preoccupied with talking about themselves. Is there anything we can do to listen better?