Strengthening your relationship with the rings program

By Dr David Marine Mabry
​Encompass Executive Director

Building a healthy and lasting relationship is one of life’s greatest joys—but let’s be honest, it’s not always easy. Whether you’re feeling disconnected, navigating a tricky season, or simply wanting to grow closer, the RINGS program at the Encompass Connection Center is here to help. ​

RINGS—short for Real Intimacy and Growth Skills—is a relationship-strengthening program created to help couples build trust, improve communication, and deepen emotional intimacy. Whether you’re dating, engaged, or married, this program provides the support and practical tools you need to take your relationship to the next level. 
What Is the RINGS Program? 
At its heart, RINGS is about giving couples the tools to build strong, connected relationships. It’s faith-informed and research-based, but don’t worry--it’s not stiff or clinical. Think of it as a guided opportunity to reconnect, learn new skills, and grow together in a fun and supportive environment. RINGS isn’t just for couples in crisis. While it’s great for working through challenges, it’s also perfect for couples who want to be proactive about strengthening their relationship and preparing for the future. 
Who Is It For? 
RINGS is for couples at all stages of their journey. Maybe you’re: 

• Dating and want to build a strong foundation. 

• Engaged and preparing for a lifetime together. 

• Married and looking to deepen your connection or navigate a tough season. 

No matter where you are, RINGS offers tools that meet you where you’re at and help you grow as a couple. 
The Heart of RINGS 
The RINGS program focuses on four key areas to help you and your partner strengthen your bond and face life’s challenges together: 
1. Knowing Who You Are: Before you can thrive together, it’s important to understand yourselves. This part of RINGS helps you: 

• Recognize your strengths and areas for growth. 

• Build on your long-term commitment to each other. 

• Explore your personalities and how they shape your relationship. 

• Reflect on your family backgrounds and how they influence you today. 

This deeper understanding creates empathy and a strong foundation for your partnership. 
2. Mastering Communication Skills: Let’s face it—communication can be tough! In this section, RINGS provides tools to help you: 

• Speak clearly and confidently while also listening well. 

• Be honest and authentic in your conversations. 

• Stay connected daily, even in the chaos of life. 

Good communication is the glue that holds relationships together, and these skills make a big difference in avoiding misunderstandings and fostering connection. 
3. Dealing with Real Life: Life is full of challenges, but with the right tools, you can tackle them as a team. RINGS teaches you how to: 

• Manage stress and support each other through tough times. 

• Handle anger in a healthy, constructive way. 

• Let go of past hurts and move forward with empathy. 

• Resolve conflicts productively without letting them damage your relationship. 

These skills help turn life’s inevitable challenges into opportunities for growth and connection. 
4. Moving Forward Together: A thriving relationship is about more than just “getting by.” It’s about building a shared life filled with purpose and joy. In this section, you’ll: 

• Learn how to work as a financial team. 

• Create a vision for your future and the legacy you want to leave together. 

• Dive into optional topics like parenting or financial management to address specific goals. 

This section helps you align your goals and dreams, so you can move forward together. 
Why Choose RINGS? 
What makes RINGS special? It’s warm, practical, and designed to fit real life. Couples love it because: 

• It’s practical: The tools and strategies you’ll learn can be used right away. 

• It’s personal: The program is tailored to your relationship’s unique needs. 

• It’s faith-informed: For those who value a spiritual foundation, RINGS offers insights that resonate. 

• It’s safe and supportive: The program creates a space where you can grow individually and as a couple. 

What to Expect 
When you join RINGS, you can expect a mix of engaging lessons, fun exercises, and meaningful conversations. Led by trained facilitators, the program includes: 

• Assessments to help you identify strengths and growth areas. 

• Interactive learning to develop communication and intimacy skills. 

• Coaching support to guide you through the process and answer questions along the way. 

It’s a relaxed, encouraging environment designed to help you connect and grow. 
Couples Love RINGS! 
Here’s what one participant had to say: 
 "RINGS completely changed how we communicate. We feel more connected and prepared for the future. It gave us tools we didn’t even know we needed!" 
Ready to Invest in Your Relationship? 
Your relationship deserves attention and care, and the RINGS program is a great way to invest in your future together. Whether you’re looking to work through challenges or simply grow closer, RINGS can help you build a relationship that lasts. 
Getting started is easy—just visit the Encompass Connection Center website or reach out to our team. We’d love to help you strengthen your bond and build a partnership you’re proud of. 
Your relationship is worth it. Let RINGS help you take the next step toward the love and connection you’ve always wanted.