 By Dr David Marine Mabry Encompass Executive Director Every couple argues.
In fact, the absence of conflict is not usually a sign of health. It is often a sign of avoidance. The real issue in marriage is not whether you disagree. The real issue is whether you know how to handle conflict in a healthy way. Over the years at Encompass Connection Center, we have worked with many couples who love each other deeply—but their pattern of arguing slowly damages emotional safety. What begins as a disagreement about finances, parenting, or schedules can quietly become criticism, defensiveness, or withdrawal. Healthy conflict in marriage is not about eliminating tension. It is about learning how to argue without damaging the relationship. There are a few simple, but powerful, principles that make a significant difference.
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 By Kermit Rowe Encompass Relationship Facilitator The kids are long gone, living their own busy lives. The grandkids are getting older, not so cuddly and openly loving as they used to be. Medicare and retirement loom, and with them, big questions and concerns you never had to think much about before. You begin to face sobering and heart-heavy questions together when your marriage hits and passes the three-decade mark, like:
 By Lavern Nissley Encompass Relationship Facilitator For many couples, the empty nest years arrive quietly—and then all at once. One day, your home is filled with backpacks, curfews, and constant motion; the next, the house is still, the calendar is open, and you and your spouse find yourselves looking at each other across the table, wondering, “So… now what?”
I distinctly remember walking past the three large graduation portraits of our two daughters and son after the youngest child had left home via a wedding. The thought hit me that "we would never be going back to the way things were with all three children under our roof and care." The sense of loss and sadness was real and generated a few tears. The transition into the middle years of marriage, especially as children launch into adulthood, can feel bittersweet. It’s a season of letting go, but also a season of uncovering what has been waiting beneath the surface all along: the opportunity to rediscover each other. |
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Encompass Connection Center services are provided to all eligible persons on a non-discriminatory basis. Encompass Connection Center complies with all applicable laws and regulations concerning discrimination does not discriminate on the basis of the potential participant's race, gender, gender orientation, age, disability or religion.
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