the gift of new beginnings

By Dr David Marine Mabry
Encompass Executive Director

Life is filled with seasons—some are joyful and easy, while others are filled with challenges that test our strength and resilience. For many couples and families, these difficulties can take a toll on relationships, creating distance, misunderstandings, or even broken trust. However, the beauty of life is that new beginnings are always possible. With intentional steps and support, relationships can flourish again. This year’s Encompass Sweetheart Gala, themed “The Gift of New Beginnings” celebrates that hopeful truth. 

As we gather at the end of National Marriage Week (February 7-14), it's the perfect time to reflect on the possibility of transformation in our relationships. Whether you’re seeking a fresh start after a conflict, a major life change, or simply a season of disconnection, you can experience the gift of new beginnings. Here are some inspirational thoughts and practical steps to help you move toward healing and renewal. 
1. Acknowledge the Need for Change 
New beginnings start with honest reflection. Take time to acknowledge the challenges that have impacted your relationship. This isn’t about placing blame but rather recognizing where growth is needed. 
Action Step: Have an open and gentle conversation with your partner or family members about your desire for a fresh start. Use "I" statements to express your feelings and hopes, such as, “I feel that we’ve been distant lately, and I would love for us to reconnect.” 
2. Embrace Forgiveness 
Forgiveness is a cornerstone of any new beginning. Holding onto past hurts keeps you tethered to pain. Letting go doesn’t mean forgetting or excusing hurtful behavior, but it does free you to move forward. 
Action Step: Consider writing a letter (even if you don’t give it) to release any lingering resentment or hurt. Share your desire to forgive and rebuild trust if appropriate. 
3. Set New Intentions Together 
Once you’ve acknowledged the past and embraced forgiveness, it’s time to dream about the future. What do you want your relationship to look like? Setting new intentions  creates a shared vision and gives you both something positive to work toward. 
Action Step: Schedule a “vision date night” to discuss goals for your relationship or family. Write down your intentions and revisit them regularly. 
4. Invest in Growth and Learning 
Just as gardens need tending, relationships require ongoing care and investment. Learning new communication skills, deepening emotional intimacy, and strengthening conflict resolution strategies can breathe fresh life into your relationship. 
Action Step: Seek out resources like books, workshops, coaching or counseling. Encompass Connection Center offers coaching, events, and support to help couples and families thrive. Consider joining one of our programs designed to help you build a strong and healthy relationship foundation. 
5. Celebrate Small Wins 
Transformation doesn’t happen overnight. It’s important to celebrate small victories along the way. Each positive step you take is a testament to your commitment and love. 
Action Step: Keep a journal or shared list where you and your partner note moments of growth, joy, and connection. Reflecting on these wins can be a source of encouragement. 
Encompass Connection Center: Your Partner in New Beginnings 
At Encompass Connection Center, we understand that every relationship faces challenges. Our mission is to help couples and families build stronger, healthier connections through education, coaching, and community events. Whether you’re looking to reignite the spark in your marriage, navigate a family transition, or simply strengthen your relationship skills, we are here to support you. 
We invite you to join us for the Sweetheart Gala on February 15, 2025, as we celebrate “The Gift of New Beginnings.” Let this evening be a reminder that hope is always within reach, and with the right tools and support, your relationships can thrive. 
As you embrace the gift of new beginnings, remember that you are not alone. Encompass Connection Center is honored to walk alongside you on this journey of hope, healing, and renewal.