Embracing the Journey of Pre-Marital Life

By Theresa Mabry
​Encompass Director of Operations

Can you feel it? The excitement, the anticipation, the thrill of stepping into a new chapter of life? For pre-marital couples, this season is truly the Gift of New Beginnings. Everything is fresh—new plans, new experiences, new families to connect with. It’s a time of endless possibility and growth as two lives come together to form something unique and beautiful. But with all this newness comes the need for intentional effort. As you step into this exciting phase, how can you build a strong foundation that will help you navigate the years ahead? 

Establish Healthy Communication Habits 
The key to a lasting marriage begins with communication. The habits you form now will either support or hinder your relationship in the future. This is the time to decide to pursue open, healthy communication. It might feel awkward at first but taking the time to understand each other and express your thoughts, feelings, and needs will give you a solid foundation for the future. And when inevitable communication hiccups arise (because they will), you’ll have the tools to address them with understanding and grace. Consider our RINGS Chat tool as an option for better, well-rounded communication.  
Conflict Resolution: It’s Not About Winning, It’s About Understanding 
Every couple faces conflict, it’s a natural part of any relationship. But the way you navigate those disagreements can make all the difference. Learning how to resolve conflicts in a healthy way now will set you up for success in the future. Conflict resolution doesn’t have to be painful or divisive. When you have the right tools and permission to use them, you can address issues head-on in a positive, productive manner. Couples who learn to work through those uncomfortable conversations tend to emerge stronger, with a deeper sense of trust and mutual respect. 
Embracing New Families: A Gift, Most of the Time 
One of the most rewarding yet challenging aspects of marriage is adjusting to each other’s extended families. This isn’t something that always comes naturally, but it is a gift—an opportunity to learn, grow, and connect with new people who will be an important part of your life. 
Before the wedding day arrives, take the time to discuss how you’ll navigate time with extended families. It’s especially important to address how to spend holidays, balancing time between both sides, and setting boundaries where necessary. These conversations, though they might feel awkward at first, are crucial to ensuring that your new family dynamic will be harmonious and fulfilling. 
A Season of Growth and Joy 
The journey you’re about to embark on is filled with countless opportunities to learn, grow, and strengthen your bond. The gift of new beginnings is all about embracing change with love, patience, and understanding. By laying the groundwork for healthy communication, conflict resolution, and family dynamics now, you’ll create a lasting foundation that will carry you through all the seasons of life ahead.